Some of you might struggle with confidence and self esteem. I know there was a period of time in my life where I did, and still do to this day. I am always working on being more confident in every situation I find myself in.
“You are a work in progress—we all are.”
Transforming into our ultimate selves is a process, and one that won’t happen over night. Confidence is something to be worked on every day of our lives, and is always a work in progress.
How can we be more confident when we walk into a room?
The most confident person in the room smiles and makes eye contact with everyone.
- The most confident person in the room is polite and kind to others.
- The most confident person in the room listens more than he or she speaks.
- The most confident person in the room might not always be the loudest, but always has something meaningful to say.
- The most confident person in the room introduces him or herself to everyone in the room and remembers THEIR names. (remembering someones name is very important).
- The most confident person in the room says please and thank you.
- The most confident person in the room has great posture and body language.
- The most confident person in the rooms has a firm hand shake.
- The most confident person in the room stands out.
- The most confident person in the room listens to others even when they don’t feel like it.
- The most confident person in the room holds strong eye contact with others, and never looks away.
There’s this thing called fear that’s in front of us for the entirety of our lives. We can choose to either stand behind it or push forward. Being confident takes practice.
Final thoughts:
Someone else isn’t going to make you confident?—?YOU are. The choices we make in our lives come down to the decisions we make. Confidence starts in the mind. The happier and more positive thoughts we feed our minds?—?the more it’s going to reflect our outer world and decisions.
It’s up to YOU!